Bob Marley (via breanna-lynn)
For some reason the things this man has to say on love really resonate with me. This is so true! I don’t see how a guy can think its okay to continue spending time with a girl knowing (or having a pretty good guess) that he`s leading her more into having feelings for him. I don’t care if you dont think you’re initiating or that you can be held responsible. Its a heavy thing you’re getting into when you mess with the line between friends and more than friends. And even if you think you’ve made it clear to her, if your actions are saying otherwise or causing her to feel otherwise, it doesn’t matter. It’s wrong to continue on in a relationship you know could be against the best interests and care of the other person. That is not love. And even if she should be the one deciding against what isn’t good for her own heart, you are still responsible for the part that you played, and as a man in a future marriage, you will be responsible for the part you play with THAT woman to an even greater degree. So get your shit together now men! If you don’t have the courage to do the right thing with a girl who you’re not interested in, you won’t have the courage to do the right thing with the girl you fall in love with, or the girl you marry.